Rustic barn weddings have become increasingly popular, and it’s easy to see why; the British countryside is gorgeous! Many of our brides choose to have a barn wedding for the relaxed vibe and the proximity to nature. So, you’ve found the perfect barn wedding venue that works for you, your wedding plans, and your guests. Next phase is the fun part: styling your wedding! While there is no right way to style any kind of wedding, here are some of our ideas to help you style your rustic barn wedding while keeping sustainability at the forefront.
Natural colours and materials
Rustic barn weddings are all about countryside charm, and one of the very first things to start the wedding styling is your colour palette. Opt for earthy tones like sage green, mustard yellow, blush pink, burnt orange, ivory, and soft browns that reflect and compliment the natural surroundings. Adding pops of metallic colours like gold or copper in your table settings or decorations can elevate the look without overpowering the rustic elements.
From wooden beams, floors, and tables to rustic chairs and barrels, wood has centre stage at a barn wedding. Incorporating natural elements like plants, moss, and flowers in your decor is a great way to enhance the rustic look. You can use mason jars for centrepieces, filled with wildflowers or branches, or create a stunning floral archway for your ceremony. Use natural materials like burlap, jute, and linen for table runners, napkins, or drapery. These eco-friendly textiles align beautifully with a rustic theme and are biodegradable.
Recycle and rent wedding decor
Barn wedding venues often come with a treasure trove of styling items and decorations that are either set up permanently or available for couples to use. This can include rustic charm staples like wooden barrels, vintage furniture, bunting, and charming signage that complement the barn's natural aesthetic. Lighting plays a key role in setting the mood, and most barn venues already have string lights, fairy lights, or even elegant chandeliers suspended from the rafters to create a magical ambiance. These lights create a romantic ambiance, perfect for both ceremonies and receptions. With many of these elements already in place, you can focus on personal touches and small details.
Give new life to old items by incorporating recycled or upcycled decor. Think vintage lanterns, reclaimed wood signage, or mason jars as centrepieces. Flea markets, thrift stores, or even your own attic can be treasure troves for unique and sustainable pieces. Consider also buying wedding decor second-hand from platforms such as Sell My Wedding and Recycle My Wedding. If you want to add some boho flair to your rustic barn wedding, consider elements like dream catchers, vintage rugs, and cushions.
If there’s a need for larger items like tables, chairs, and tableware, opt for rental services renting eliminates the need for single-use products and ensures items are reused, reducing waste. Many rental wedding prop suppliers, such as Roka Bella Rose Weddings, also offer rustic-themed collections to match your barn wedding aesthetic.
Invitations and favours
Choose digital invitations or, if you prefer physical invites, find a wedding stationer who specialises in sustainable wedding invitations like Paper Chain Wedding Stationery, or why not choose seed paper wedding invitations from Poppy Forrest? Replace traditional wedding favours with sustainable alternatives like seed packets, small potted succulents, or edible treats in reusable packaging. These options are not only eco-friendly but also practical and memorable.
Wedding dress and bridal look
When it comes to choosing the perfect wedding dress for a rustic barn wedding, opt for a style that complements the natural charm of the setting. Choose natural materials like organic cotton, ramie, and linen. A cotton lace gown in soft, off-white hues with a relaxed silhouette is a choice that blends beautifully with the rustic theme. Alternatively, consider a vintage-inspired dress, such as our Tanita dress, with delicate details and flowing fabrics for a romantic, nostalgic touch. Pair your dress with simple, natural accessories like a floral crown made from seasonal blooms or a delicate hairpiece crafted from sustainable materials. For footwear, comfortable yet stylish options like leather sandals, boots, or ballet flats can add a practical yet chic vibe. Finish your bridal look with subtle, glowing makeup and a soft hairstyle to embrace the barn’s effortless, organic aesthetic. For the groom, consider a classic look with a country twist. A well-fitted suit or a tweed jacket with suspenders and boots is an ideal choice for a barn wedding. Don’t forget to include some personalised touches, like a handkerchief or leather belt, to complete the ensemble.
Our wedding dress suggestions for barn wedding: Magnolia, Tanita (for a more vintage inspired look), Pixie, Poppy, Wylie and Fiona.
Florals and greenery
Wildflowers are a popular choice for rustic barn weddings, and for good reason. They bring colour, texture, and a natural, carefree vibe to the celebration. Arrange them in vintage ceramic or glass vases, glass bottles, mason jars, or even wooden crates for a country-inspired look. For a more bohemian flair, opt for pampas grass and dried flowers. Greenery like eucalyptus, ferns, or ivy can be used to frame the space with foliage and create a fresh, earthy atmosphere. Make it sustainable by choosing florals that are in season and sourced locally to reduce the carbon footprint associated with imported flowers, which is bigger than most think in result of transport and refrigeration, among other aspects. Better yet, opt for potted plants (how about succulents or cacti?) or herbs that can double as wedding favours and thrive long after the day has passed.
Food and drink
Rustic weddings lend themselves to family-style dining. Serve comfort food like roasted meats, hearty salads, and mashed potatoes in large bowls for a homestyle feel. You can also feature food stations like a BBQ or a pie bar, offering a relaxed and fun way for guests to enjoy their meal. Dessert could be a naked cake, macaron tower in the colours of your wedding, or even a doughnut station. For drinks, serve up signature cocktails or craft beer in mason jars or vintage pints. Work with a caterer who prioritises locally sourced, organic ingredients. Consider a farm-to-table menu that complements the rustic vibe of your venue. Many barn wedding venues have made it really easy for you by listing their recommended suppliers that fit this brief perfectly. Rustic tablescapes are the perfect way to bring the theme to life. Top the rustic wooden tables with natural organic cotton or linen tablecloths or burlap runners. Add personal touches like handwritten name tags or wooden slices for chargers, and finish the look with candles or small lanterns. For a personal touch, use local produce or homemade treats like honey or whisky as part of the decor.
Music and entertainment
The music you choose can tie your rustic barn wedding together. While the music can be 90’s alternative rock if you wish, consider acoustic or folk bands for the ceremony and reception and have them cover your favourite Nirvana and Soundgarden songs. Live bands can help create a lively, laid-back vibe that matches the rustic setting perfectly. If your barn wedding has an outdoor space, take full advantage of it. Set up a cosy outdoor lounge area with hay bales covered in blankets, and set up traditional lawn games outside to keep your guests entertained. You could also add a firepit to keep guests warm and make smores as the evening cools down or a hammock area for those who want to take breaks from partying and relax under the stars.
A rustic barn wedding is an opportunity to celebrate love in a setting that feels intimate, cosy, and full of charm. From embracing natural colours and materials to incorporating upcycled decor and locally sourced florals, there are countless ways to make your special day both beautiful and meaningful. Barn wedding venues often provide a stunning foundation with their rustic charm and built-in decorations, making it easier to focus on thoughtful, personal touches that reflect your values. By making mindful choices—like renting tableware, choosing digital invitations, and sourcing seasonal ingredients for your menu—you’ll create a day that’s not only unforgettable but also kind to the planet. So, embrace the relaxed vibe and let your rustic barn wedding be the party of a lifetime.
Image credits:
Venue: Oak Tree Barn Weddings
Concept, planner & styling: Two Become One Wedding Planner
Photographer: Sonder Lust Photography
Florist: Holly And The Ivy Floristry
Vintage furniture, props & table decor: The Prop Library
Cake designer: All Shapes Cake
Macaron tower: Monsieur Et Madame Cakes
Hair and makeup: I Do Makeup And Hair
Stationery: Hardings Wedding Stationery
Bride model: Nicola
Groom model: Basil Dsouza
Concept and planning: NLS Hair Stylist
Venue: Waterside Country Barn
Hair stylist: NLS Hair Stylist
Makeup: Georgina Bray
Photographer: Agrestal Visuals
Models: Hilary and Ben
Florist: My Little Posy
Accessories: My Little Posy
Camper van: Vintage Camper Booths